Kind of a Lesbian

Lesbian, Skate, Urban, Romance, Non-Judgemental Advice Blog

23 years old, Single, Canadian.

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I wanna be in that relationship were I can just do the stupidest shit. Like legit, dance in public with me, make faces at me, do accents with me, hell, make fun of my bad habits in a funny way. I don’t care, just have fun with me.



i remember this one time I thought I was straight
but here i am gayer than ever


Good afternoon ;)

Crushes’ bracelet I just finished…

Crushes’ bracelet I just finished…

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You're 23 right? Would you date someone who's 17?

I am and no I wouldn’t.

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You give really good advice so I have a question for you... For a few months I've been talking to this girl, and long story short, i fell in love. I love everything about this girl ok. But she just recently got a girlfriend that she seems to be super into, & all of a sudden just stopped talking to me. Unfollowed me on here and insta, stopped answering my calls and everything. My question is, should I just give up on the first girl I fell in love with? Or do I go after her? But how? What do I do?

Give up. If you have to chase her, it’s not worth it because you’ll be spending a majority of your time together chasing her.

I like this girl but she doesn't feel the same about me. I try to stop liking her but every time I think I'm getting there she says something that pulls me right back in. How do I stop?

Stop talking to her. If you don’t want to be with her, stop talking to her until you trust yourself not to fall for any of her lines.

I've been talking to this girl who I met while vacationing in another country for a while. We've made it clear that we're both interested in each other but lately she hasn't been putting in as much effort as I'd like. Basically it's been on me to initiate any and all conversations between us. We haven't talked in weeks because I'm waiting for her to initiate. I don't want to seem pushy or desperate by continuing to message her but I'm afraid if I don't that I'll stop hearing from her

It sounds like she just isn’t as into anymore. If this has been going on for a couple weeks, she may just trying to let you go with out telling you so.

Perhaps all it was, was a vacation fling and that’s all it was meant to be …

You're really good with advice. I like girls more then guys, but where I live there aren't too many girls interested in girls. If they're are they not my type or have girlfriends. I feel like I'll never meet anyone where I live and that kind of depressions me. I also feel like I won't meet "her" at all. /sigh/

Don’t be depressed. If you are putting yourself out there and trying , the right girl will come alone and be that person you are looking for. Just don’t give up, love isn’t an easy task. There is a lot of waiting and struggle but it does come and it’s worth it when it’s here.

Is it weird to be a lesbian and only be able to get off with straight porn??

Not at all! Keep watching that straight porn!

If it gets you hot and bothered, then that’s all that counts.

I've been talking to a girl online for months and we've always been very flirty/sexual. We talk almost everyday and I really like her. The only problem is I'm almost sure she has a boyfriend.. I never asked directly because I don't want to ruin things but she's always dropping hints and saying she'd consider an open relationship. I also don't think she's out to anyone it's really complicated and I just don't know whether to stop messaging her in case I'm just going to fall deeper and get hurt..

The thing is with open relationships, which are great if everyone involved is comfortable and doesn’t get jealous easily, but most people get jealous.

If you okay with sharing, then keep messaging her and see where things lead. Just know that eventually your feelings may get hurt, whether it’s because she’s with her boyfriend or if she chooses her boyfriend over you.

Just be aware of what you want and what you desire. Sometimes they are two different things.

Ok, I've been snapchatting to this girl whose also into girls and we been talking like a lot more than usual but I don't think she knows that I like girls and I'm kinda interested but don't want to rush anything and I'm not sure she's really out yet and I just wanted to tell someone.

Just mention it, say a celebrity is hot and you would love to date her. Or straight up tell her that you like girls.

You are beautiful, intelligent and a wonderful person I hope you know that and have a fantastic day sweet heart

Thank you Anon! I hope you have a great day as well!