Kind of a Lesbian

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Wisconsin women’s hockey all-time leading scorer Hilary Knight poses nude for ESPN Body Issue

Knight: “There is this image of athletic women as small and petite — the yoga body type. Women in general, we tend to shrink ourselves and not have as much confidence as we should in presenting ourselves and our body types. It’s OK to be fit and healthy and comfortable within your body, whatever frame you have. Since gaining 15 pounds to be at the top of my sport [for the Olympics], I’ve tried to shatter the body image that muscular isn’t feminine.”


Women’s hockey is my new favorite sport.

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She doesn't have long finger nails and I've bled about four times already. I don't know what to do or what to make of it.

I’m not sure what to tell you, have you talked to your doctor or googled it? I think you should talk to your doctor.

So I've had a crush on my best friend for quite a while. (She doesn't know I'm not straight.) We've always been flirty. Like she'll wink at me or touch my leg. She's straight, yet flirty with me. Anyway, she's moving away soon and I'm not sure if I should tell her I'm bi and I have a massive crush on her or just let her slip away? Advice please and thank you.

You should tell her or you’ll love your life with the what ifs.

My best friend literally just told me last night that they liked me, and I'm absolutely in love with them, and we confessed a lot last night but today they weren't even online and i'm so scared i said something wrong? do you have any advice? i'm going insane

Don’t start freaking out just yet. People get busy and sometimes don’t come on line. Wait til tomorrow and start freaking out. Try contacting her again tomorrow, let her process first.

I started talking to this girl last week. It was going good. The conversions were good. But then we stopped texting for a couple days. Today I decided to text her and it's like I am putting all the effort into the conversion. What should I do?

Stop texting her. If she isn’t interested in talking with you, don’t bother texting her. It’s a waste of your time.

So I like this girl, we just met and getting to know each other, I want to ask her out on her birthday but im scared to ate her bc im a virgin an im scared to do anything with a girl or a guy but she wants to... can you help?

If you are still nervous about sex, don’t do it yet. Wait til your ready. Ask her out and take this slow with her. Give her a little and see where it leads. If your comfortable making out and groping, then do that. You don’t have to have sex.

Okay I started talking to this girl 3 weeks ago and she calls me cute and we flirt and talk neaely everyday. But sometimes she talks about other girls (she's on vacation) and now all of a sudden I feel like she's ignoring me but I don't know what...

If she’s being distant don’t pressure her. Let her come to you.

the anon that asked about the boy... it's kinda hard to kiss him, he lives 2 hrs away.. so yes, now i really don't know what to do!

I see. Well do you get excited when you think about kissing him?


It won’t upload. The internet isn’t strong enough of my phone won’t support it while it’s being uploaded.

Two people like each other. One happens to be a sexual person and wants to have sex, but doesn't want to seem rude or that's all they are after. They just like sex and the closeness it brings. What would you suggest to this person if they wanted to attempt to approach these desires to their crush, and they have an open mind to the fact it just might not be the right time for their crush? How would one go about this without sounding like a jerk?

Trying tell her that you want to get to her, that you want to get to know all of her. You don’t want to put pressure on her but you want to let her know that you are very interested in hearing her moan.

I don't know if my message went through or not because my service is crappy. Anyways, the past couple times my girlfriend has fingered me I've bleed. It's not a little or a large amount. It's somewhere in between. I'm not on my period or close to it so it's not that. She feels like it's her fault and I'm confused and feel bad. Any advice??

First off, is your girlfriend’s finger nails trimmed?

Second, it could depend on how much sexual experience you have. Some
Girls bleed when their hymen is “broken”, the hymen varies in thickness and that can result in bleeding.

So the past few times my girlfriend fingers me I end up bleeding. I'm not even close to my period and we don't know what's wrong. She thinks it's her fault and I feel bad. Help?

—gonna answer this to your other one.